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Elaine C. Effinger
Even the great fashion designer Jean Paul Gaultier knew that “elegance is a question of personality, more than one’s clothes.” From the days in her youth when Elaine donned the finest clothing as a runway model, to more recently when she could still stop a room simply by entering it, her appearance was nothing short of spectacular. But her elegance transcended her attire. Her home in Edgewater Park was an extension of her perfect manners, demeanor and etiquette. Not only was it exquisite, the living room lacked one important feature, a TV. Elaine would rather entertain her guests herself. She proudly voted for every Democrat from Trumann to Obama and tirelessly volunteered with her husband with local groups. Whether it was the Democratic Club or various women’s groups, she always supported the cause, but loved the chance to socialize. rnElaine’s story cannot be told alone, it must be shared with her late husband, Mahlon. As teenagers they met on a cousin’s farm in Lincoln, Delaware and immediately became inseparable. They lived in Burlington County for 51 years, and together they always emitted a sense of class. When they walked into a room everyone noticed, but when they took to the dance floor everyone was happy to watch, even their feet were in sync. Before his passing in 1999, the two were blessed by their children: Michael (Barbara) of Pennsylvania, Kimberly Leek (Herman) of Riverside, and Mark of Edgewater Park, and again by their grandchildren: Eric Effinger (Ly), Keith Effinger, Rebecca Leek (Scott Maning), Joshua Leek, Jeremy Leek and Amanda Effinger, and great-grandchildren: Alexander Effinger, Madison Effinger, Sienna Ly Effinger and Julian Manning.rnAs per Elaine’s wishes, she was cremated, and her 85 elegant years (March 22, 1925-Feb. 10, 2011) were celebrated privately. Memorial gifts may be made in her name to Samaritan Hospice, 5 Eves Dr., Suite 300, Marlton, NJ 08053. Arrangements by the Sweeney Funeral Home, Riverside. rn
8 Comments
Being a member and officer of the Willingboro Women’s Club, she was always ready to greet and lead the Club with grace and style. To have known her and been a friend was a pleasure and honor. She will be missed by many. Condolences and prayers are with all the family.
I am very sorry for your loss.
Elaine was one of the classiest people I ever met. Someone who took such pride in how she carried herself and aside from always looking stunning, she had a heart of gold. She was my mother-in-law for 10 years and as far as mother-in-laws go I could not have asked for better. She was an incredible grandmother to my daughter Amanda who will miss her very much. She has left us with many fond memories that we will cherish. Not too many women can hold a candle to Elaine, she was truly one of a kind and I will always cherish being a part of her life. We love you Elaine!
I only had the pleasure of meeting Elaine once or twice. I went to school with Kim and Mike was my Scout leader for many years. They always spoke very well of Elaine. Please accept my condolences.rn
I cannot think of two finer people than Elaine and Mahlon. Every word of the obituary was true.
Mrs.”E” was the most elegant lady I knew. Always dressed beautifully, never dressed down. Hair and makeup always done, looking elegant. A skilled seamstress, she created and crafted her own wardrobe. Her home was always neat, no newspapers lying about, everything in its place. I can still remember dining at her home and enjoying her hamburger casserole among many other delicious meals. Lots of other memories too numerous to list. Good-bye Mrs. Effinger, say hello to Mr. Effinger and Brandy for me.
One thing I feel is essential to mention about the “Big E” was the woman could play poker like nobody’s business. Some of my most cherished memories were the nights at the table with her and my dad.
Although the years put miles between us I’ll always remember the gracious manner that you brought to our card club when we were young housewives in Willingboro.nMy condolences to the family.